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Services

The work looks different for every person and every family. Some people come to me months before a death, wanting time to think, plan, and get their affairs in order. Some come in the final weeks, needing a steady presence in the room. Some come after. Wherever you are in that arc, there's a place for you here.

Below you'll find the ways we can work together. If you're not sure which one fits, reach out anyway. We'll figure it out together.

    • End of Life Planning — Together we map out the decisions that need to be made — medical directives, legal documents, final wishes — so nothing is left to chance and your loved ones aren't left guessing.

    • Swedish Death Cleaning — A thoughtful process of sorting through a lifetime of belongings, deciding what to pass on, let go, or preserve — done with care, not urgency.

    • Legacy & Document Planning — From letters to loved ones to organizing the paperwork that outlives us, I help you get it all in order so your story is told on your terms.

    • LGBTQ+ Centered Death Work — Death care that sees and honors you fully. I offer affirming, identity-conscious support for queer and trans individuals and their chosen families at every stage.

    • Addiction-Informed Death Care — For families and individuals whose experience of dying or grief is shaped by addiction, I offer care that meets you exactly where you are — without shame, without judgment, and with full recognition of how complicated this kind of love and loss can be.

    • Legacy & Keepsake Work — Letters, memory books, recorded conversations, objects with meaning — I help you create something tangible that carries a life forward.

    • Funeral Celebrant — A personalized ceremony that actually sounds like the person who died. I work with families to craft and lead a goodbye that is true, meaningful, and theirs.

    • Altar Making — An altar is a place to gather grief, memory, and love. I help you build one that feels intentional and sacred, whether for an active dying process, a memorial, or ongoing remembrance.

  • Twelve sessions. Twelve things to cross off. By the end, your affairs are in order — and the people you love won't have to figure it out later. This is practical, paced, and actually doable.

  • " I didn't know exactly what I wanted as I looked at end-of-life planning in my '60s. Leslie was a master navigator of both the practical, like advance directives, but also how I want to be remembered. She ignited me in how I want to embrace friends in these last few decades of my life."

    Wendy S.

  • "As someone in recovery, I wanted to look at special considerations around my fears and worries for the future. She helped me look at what treatments were not acceptable to me, and how I might look at forgiveness during my dying process."

    Bernice M.

  • "As an LGBTQ+ person, I had special challenges in creating a memorial service and legacy book concept. Leslie helped walk me through a beautiful plan for both ideas."

    David M.

My Process

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30-minute consult

We start with a conversation. You're invited to share what's on your heart — where you are, what you're navigating, and what kind of support you're looking for.

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Proposal

Every situation is unique, and so is the support I offer. After our call, I'll put together a clear outline of how we might work together, including what to expect, timing, and fees — so you can make a decision that feels right for you and your family.

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Delivery

This is where I show up — whether that means planning, presence, paperwork, or simply sitting with you in the hard moments. I'll be by your side through every step of the process.

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Closing

When the immediate work is complete, we take time to reflect and ensure nothing has been left unattended. You won't be left to figure out next steps alone — I'll make sure you feel held, informed, and ready for what comes next.

Sanctuary · End-of-Life Services
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